Syngin Colchester Stuns TLC Fans With A Very Mature Post

90 Day Fiance star Syngin Colchester and his girlfriend Shayna, who goes by the social media name, Shan Francisco, are still together after their long trip to Asia. This week, he stunned fans when he opened up about their relationship. Read on to find out what happened. 

The Bad Boy Is Growing Up?

When Tania Maduro married Colchester on 90 Day Fiance, everyone felt shocked because they didn’t like her much. At the time, he was the darling of many fans. However, she later backed up a claim by an anonymous person who claimed he was abusive. That is history now, as he met Shayna and they seem as steady as a rock. 

90 Day Fiance fans don’t see the handsome South African being footloose and spontaneous on the show anymore. However, from time to time, he posts on social media. Once, he posted about their little lizard named “Toast,” and fans thought he and Shayna had split. But the Instagram post on March 14, 2025, revealed that he seems to be growing up. 

Stunned By What Was Said 

Hold onto your horses, because Syngin Colchester posted something that few people thought they would ever hear from him. A nice photo of him with his girlfriend showed them looking cozy together. Another one revealed them with their cute little pup.

In his caption, talking about how his life changed, Syngin said, “I…always thought love was adventurous, spontaneous, wild, and passionate. And I still believe that but the last year has showed me it’s so much more.” What followed seemed very out of character from the wild reality TV star that fans knew.

Maturing A Lot

Continuing, the former wild boy who lost a lot of weight and polished up, demonstrated unsuspected maturity. He added, “Love is coming home from our jobs and making dinner together after a long day. It’s sending pictures of our pets back and forth, and always feeding the lizard his crickets because she’s scared of them. It’s buying little things to brighten up our space and finding peace in our routine.”

Just wow, fans thought as he also wrote, “It’s learning to communicate and pushing through when it’s hard. It’s being given the space to f*ck up and growing from it together…”

Reactions Are Complimentary 

Shayna agreed that he’d “grown” a lot since she first met him, and fans echoed that sentiment. Here are a few reactions from his followers:

• These are very beautiful true words.
• What a beautiful sentiment!!
• Syngin, your growth has been amazing. She brings out the best in you.
• You are growing up❤️

Are you surprised by the change in Syngin Colchester? Are you happy that he’s finally growing up and seems to have found joy in life? Let us know in the comments below, and come back here often for all your 90 Day Fiance cast news and updates.