90 Day Fiancé Star Cynthia Opens Up About Her ‘People-Pleasing’ Nature

90 Day Fiancé star Molly Hopkins’ former friend Cynthia Decker has revealed that being a ‘people pleaser’ led to abuse.

90 Day Fiancé star Molly Hopkins has yet to let fans know why she and her former good friend, Cynthia Decker, have split. Now, Cynthia has shared a heartbreaking message to her fans on Instagram, revealing that she is a “people pleaser,” which has led to verbal and physical abuse. Whether this message has anything to do with the problems between the former friends in currently unknown.

90 Day Fiancé star Cynthia Decker opens up on social media

As 90 Day Fiancé fans know, Molly Hopkins and Cynthia Decker used to be the closest of friends. So much so that Cynthia appeared with Molly on 90 Day Fiancé: Pillow Talk, where the ladies shared their opinion of TLC reality stars.

However, now the long-running friendship is over, Cynthia has made a heartbreaking post on Instagram. In the post, she explains that many of her problems are due to the fact that is a “people pleaser.” In fact, Decker revealed that her people-pleasing nature has led to her being verbally and physically abused.

Cynthia revealed in December 2022 that she and Molly were no longer friends. However, while she has acknowledged their split, she still hasn’t revealed the main reason for it. Meanwhile, along the way, Cynthia has dropped hints about what might have led to terrible things happening in her life.

In a recent Instagram post, Cynthia has now addressed her social media followers, talking about her personality. In her words, she wrote, “I’m a people pleaser,” adding that she has always put “other’s needs” before herself.

In fact, Decker wrote that she allowed her loved ones to verbally and physically abuse her, leading to “hurt” and “pain.” She went on to add that she is finally “undergoing a huge transformation period,” adding:

People pleasing doesn’t work! In fact it lowers your self esteem and allows others to treat you with disrespect! If this is you, stop! You are worthy and deserve respect and kindness for who you are! You don’t have to do anything to be accepted. If those you are with don’t like it they can go! God bless you and you are not alone!

Readers can see her full post here:

Fans respond to Cynthia’s moving words

Cynthia’s post drew a lot of respect from 90 Day Fiancé fans and her personal followers. In their comments, they encouraged her to be strong, while one wrote, “You got this. God will see you through.”

Another follower wrote, “Always be your authentic self in all situations.” Meanwhile, another commented, “Don’t beat yourself up Cynthia, we are all a work in progress and no one is perfect.”

Following Cynthia’s split from Molly, fans feel her message about being a “people pleaser” had something to do with her former friendship. Possibly, Cynthia had stopped trying to please Molly and stood up to herself, leading to the end of their relationship.

We might never know what happened between the 90 Day Fiancé stars, but at least by opening up, Cynthia has plenty of support.